Many men, upon encountering premature ejaculation in sexual activity, immediately conclude that they have an incurable disease. However, this is far from the truth. In Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), there is a method to help stabilize your essence gate. Issues like sensitive premature ejaculation and lack of firmness in the essence pass are not difficult to regulate as long as the syndrome differentiation is accurate and appropriate herbal formulas are prescribed. Therefore, when facing such a situation, it's important not to become overly anxious or distressed; try to relax your mind.

Many people attribute heightened sensitivity of the ancestral sinew (penis) solely to kidney issues, but its connection to the heart is actually extremely significant. In TCM, it is said that the heart governs the mind and spirit, serving as the master of the five viscera and six bowels. All bodily sensations are directed and controlled by the heart. For instance, if you want to eat or go for a run, the intention originates from the heart first. Without this mental intention, even with the strongest spleen and stomach, digestion cannot occur, and no matter how good your physical strength, you cannot begin running. The same principle applies to sexual activity. Without the heart's intention, even robust kidney function cannot mobilize qi and blood effectively. If the heart is overly tense or agitated, kidney essence becomes like water leaking from a faucet—released at the slightest touch. Thus, to truly regulate and improve the condition, one must harmonize both the heart and kidneys. When the mind is calm and stable, the kidneys can effectively secure the essence, allowing for effortless control during intimate moments.

In Traditional Chinese Medicine, there is a secret formula called Gu Jing Mi Yuan Tang. This prescription is quite potent, containing over ten medicinal herbs including Euryale seeds, lotus seeds, Rosa laevigata, mantis egg cases, calcined dragon bones, and oysters.

Each of these medicinal herbs has its own purpose. Euryale seeds and lotus seeds can tonify the kidneys and consolidate essence, replenishing the kidney's primordial qi. Rosa laevigata and mantis egg cases have astringent and consolidating properties, helping to reduce the loss of kidney essence. Calcined dragon bones and oysters can calm and tranquilize the mind, stabilizing the spirit. The main functions of this formula are to tonify the kidneys and consolidate essence, nourish the heart and calm the mind, as well as soothe the liver and cool the blood. It addresses multiple angles simultaneously, resolving issues such as heart and kidney deficiency, nervous sensitivity, and qi and blood insufficiency.

If you typically experience sensitivity upon touch, along with excessive nervousness and anxiety—the more you rush, the more irritable you become—and also suffer from symptoms such as soreness and weakness in the lower back and knees, insomnia with excessive dreaming, fatigue, and lack of energy, you may consider this formula. However, it should be adjusted by a physician based on your specific condition to achieve improvement. It is important to note that medication should be approached with caution. It is best to follow the guidance of a professional TCM practitioner and avoid self-experimentation.